If you are twenty-five or under, you have no business even thinking about getting married or becoming a father. I don’t care how in love you might be with “the greatest girl in the world.”  I’m sure she’s terrific. But it doesn’t matter how ready she feels to get married and have a baby. She [...]

So what does it mean to say a guy “has balls”? Of course he has balls. Every guy has balls, right? Sure, but we’re not talking about testicles; we’re talking about balls. You get known for having balls by how you act, especially under pressure. When the chips are down, a guy who has balls [...]

Here’s the truth: When it comes to being a husband and father, if you’re going to do the job right, you have to be conscious of the compromises you are making and are going to make. You have to make peace with those compromises or you’ll either drop the ball, letting your family down, or [...]

It is easy to confuse having balls with having heart. Great athletes have heart. Some have balls, too, but if they do it has nothing to do with what they do during the game. Giving the famous “110%” on the playing field is playing with heart — “ which is great and admirable. But it’s [...]